I found out

(vis-a-vis, a RL friend: )
[12:32] Dave: relationship w/ her is weird cos I think she's gorgeous but am not really attracted to her
[12:33] Dave: we were talking about the nature of nice guys and misfits and it's comforting to know that she's always felt like she didn't belong or didn't fit in.
[12:34] Dave: that's my real ethnic group, misfits.

and I so agree with The Infamous Brad's analisys in http://www.livejournal.com/~bradhicks/159329.html

(no subject)

taking my wife to the ER

unhappy